Saturday, May 2, 2009

Target vs. Walmart

I know that hate is a strong word, and I don't use it much, but if there is a word that describes my feelings about Walmart, it is pretty close to those four letters. In contrast, I absolutely LOVE Target. I went to Target earlier this week to get a few things, as I do almost on a weekly basis. I found a parking spot right next to the curb, and close to the entrance. I walked in and smelled the distinct aroma of popcorn (all Targets smell like popcorn when you walk in) and see red everywhere, which made me happy. I put Hayden and Kiley in a shopping cart, printed a gift registry for an upcoming baby shower, and proceeded down the aisles. I picked up some of the usual essential items like: deodorant, paper towels, dish soap, etc. Then I stopped by the snack aisle and got a box of fruit snacks because I forgot to bring some and Hayden cannot go anywhere without eating fruit snacks. We made our way to the baby section and picked out a few things from the registry. Then I just "happened" to walk by the Clearance rack in the clothing section and came across an adorable tan trench coat that was not only the last one, but the only item on the whole rack that was 75% off. I tried it on, and with a trip to Minnesota coming up soon, I could not resist the $10 pricetag. So, into my red cart it went. At the end of the shopping trip, we made our way to the front. One person in line. No waiting. Everyone's happy.


Now, let me tell you about my trip to Walmart. I really avoid going there if at all possible, but there were just some things that I had to get there. I drove around the parking lot a few times looking for something not a mile away from the entrance. I settled with a a parking spot, and of course there were 5 carts lined up along the curb right next to my car. I pick Kiley up out of the car and went to grab one of the carts to put her in. The first one had a half-drinken soda in it. The second one had nasty brown crusty stuff all over it. And the third one I tried had a plastic bag in it, which (no joke) had a dirty diaper inside. This is starting off well. So, we made the trek to the entrance of the store (I had all three girls with me this time too) and there is one (uno) cart to choose from in the whole entrance. Thankfully, there was no mystery junk on it (not anything visible at least), or any leftover cups or diapers, so I wiped it down the best that I could and put my kids in it. Of course, the "safety" strap is missing on one side, so I couldn't buckle Kiley in, but that's the best Walmart could do for me. We walked in and the first thing we got were two frozen pizzas, which were one of the main reasons why we went to Walmart in the first place. They have these huge pizzas that you can bake at home and they are surprisingly delicious and only cost $8. Well, because they are so huge, they could barely fit in the cart with Hayden sitting in it. So, I tried to stand them up on the side of the cart, but when I did that all the cheese and toppings started sliding off the pizza. So, I had to lay them down flat, which left Hayden about 5 inches to sit/stand. It was not until after I put the pizzas in the cart that I realized how incredibly crowded it was in that store. There were people everywhere!! (No wonder why all the carts were gone!) It is not only hard to walk through a place that's very crowded, but it is even more difficult to push a cart through a crowded store while everyone else is stopping to put things in their cart, looking at the billions of items on every aisle and corner, and of course not watching where they are going. I tried to go down the aisle with the cleaning supplies, but there was a huge pole in the middle of the aisle, and I wouldn't have been able to even make it past the crowd of people to squeeze around the pole. So, I decided to get diapers first and then come back. Well, there were three Walmart associates pricing all of these clearance items, and they were blocking most of the aisle with the diapers. Plus, there were 4 or 5 other people trying to find diapers as well. Ahhh! I finally just squeezed my way through, grabbed the size I needed and got out of there. On my way back to the cleaning aisle, I picked up some milk, cheese, and eggs, tried to strategically place them around Hayden and Kiley in the cart, and tried to maneuver around the neverending crowd of people on every aisle and corner. I finally picked up the cleaner that I needed, then I noticed that Kiley was sucking on the lid of the gallon of milk that was sitting next to her. I just hoped that whoever stocked the milk that day didn't have the swine flu :) (Speaking of the swine flu, I sanitized all of our hands about 5 times while we were at Walmart that day - that place scares me!) When we were finally done, we got to the front and noticed the sea of people on every checkout line. Why do we do this to ourselves? I settled on one of the lines with only 5 people ahead of me, but I think they were the 5 slowest people in the world. By the time we made it to the front, the kids were starting to melt down. Kiley's face was covered in crackers, which were all gone by then and she was crying. Hayden started screaming because she wanted to get out of the cart, and Avery kept asking me what we were going to have for lunch. The lady scanned all of my items, I strategically piled them back in the cart again, and then paid for the stuff. I saw the question: "Did your cashier greet you today?" No, she didn't. In fact, she didn't even look up once, smile or say anything except, "Here" when she handed me my milk. Not that I can blame her really. If I had to be a cashier at Walmart, it would probably be hard for me to be friendly and greet people hour after hour too. I think the neverending "beep", "beep", "beep", "beep" of the items being scanned would alone drive me crazy.

Anyway, we made our way back to the car, crying, starving children and crazy mother, but we survived another trip to Walmart. After one more hand sanitation and moving another cart out of the way so we could back up the car, we were finally done. It was not the worst trip to Walmart I have had, but just another reminder to me of why I hate going there.

I apologize for the long, and probably boring post. And I also apologize to any Walmart lovers (or cashiers) out there. I just very much prefer going to the Red T Store (which is what Avery calls it) with the smell of popcorn, the red plastic carts that generally glide smoothly, the clearance racks which every now and then have an item that I just can't pass up, and the short and relaxing lines at the checkout. Just thinking about Target and all of the red there makes me happy :) I know I will be back there soon...

Monday, April 27, 2009

I Love My Girls

Last Sunday I took the girls outside after church to take some pictures of them. They wanted to twirl around in their dresses. I remember those "twirling" days. I always loved my dresses that I could twirl around in. It was so cute to watch them spin around and watch their dresses spin out. Avery especially had a good time. Her grandma made this green dress for her for her birthday, and it is a great "twirling" dress.
Poor Hayden is not the most coordinated child out there, but she tries. It will be interesting to see what she likes doing when she gets older. Hopefully she grows out of her uncoordinated stage. She sure makes us laugh though.


Despite their usual fighting, Avery & Hayden really do love each other and get along pretty well. They give each other hugs a lot (usually after they apologize for hitting the other one :) Hayden especially loves to give hugs and kisses. We have been working on potty training her lately and she for some reason hasn't gotten the #2 down in the potty yet (which can be messy and frustrating). Last night I spent quite a lot of time cleaning up Hayden, as well as the bathroom, and I felt myself getting angry and upset. When she was finally clean I helped her put some new clothes on and she just gave me this huge squeeze and kiss and said, "I love you mommy." It was so sweet, it just melted the anger away. I knew she was trying and for some reason it's just taking longer than it did for Avery. But, I was reminded in that moment by a loving Heavenly Father that He loves all of His children, especially the innocent little children that He has blessed us to have in our families, more than even we can love them. Being a mom is definitely a hard job, but I wouldn't trade it for the world, stinky messes and all.

Friday, April 17, 2009

Happy Easter

On the Saturday before Easter, we had a little Easter party at our house with Brandon's mom and his sister Erin and her family. She has two boys, Hunter and Porter, who Avery loves to play with. Grandma Dorothy (Brandon's mom) brought the girls some toys that blow bubbles, which have kept them entertained every day since then. (Thanks Grandma Dorothy!) We had an Easter egg hunt at the park near our house. Thankfully the rain stopped long enough for the kids to be outside and not be cold or wet.Hayden is walking really well now! She can almost get up to a full running pace, which means she and Avery can chase each other around the house now. Hayden loved finding eggs with all the "big kids".Avery got more and more excited with each egg she found, and she was so proud of herself for finding them all. She wanted to take her basket of eggs everywhere we went for the next few days. She even begged me to take them to church, but her mean mother wouldn't let her.

After the hunt, we took the kids outside to decorate some real eggs. Hayden didn't quite understand what we were doing. She dumped one of the eggs in a cup of Hawaiian Punch, which we found a few hours later outside. It actually dyed the egg better than the red dye that came in the box. It was pretty funny! The kids had a great time playing together and it was nice of everyone to make the drive out to our house.
On Easter Sunday we had dinner at my parents' house in Mesa and all the kids had another hunt for eggs in their backyard. (Let's just say that I don't want to see Easter eggs again for a really long time - they're all over our house :) But, of course, they loved it and they had a great time with all of their cousins. I forgot our camera though, so unfortunately I don't have any pics of that day. Overall, it was a great Easter, and the best part of it was being able to focus on the Savior throughout the week and on Sunday. I taught our combined YW lesson and it was so great to study the life and sacrifice of Jesus Christ and his Atonement. I found this amazing video on YouTube that I used in my lesson. It has clips from the Lamb of God and The Testaments and the song "His Hands" is playing in the background. I cry every time I watch it. It's really neat. Happy Easter to all of you! Here is the link to the video:

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Thankful Thursday

Living in "thanksgiving daily" has been a goal of mine for quite some time. I really love the words to the hymn that say, "Count your many blessings; name them one by one, And it will surprise you what the Lord has done." That is so true. Whenever I focus on my blessings and the things I am thankful for, I am always surprised and humbled by all the things I have been given and sometimes take for granted. I have been wanting to post about the things I am thankful for for a while now, but I knew I couldn't fit my entire list in one post. So I decided to make the first Thurs. of every month "Thankful Thursday" and dedicate a post to the things I am thankful for. So, here is my current gratitude list (in no particular order), and yes, some of the things are definitely superficial, but nonetheless I am genuinely grateful for them.

I am thankful for...

1. Beautiful spring weather
2. Hayden being able to walk again (quite quickly now I might add :)
3. My husband's job
4. The laughter and sense of humor of my kids
5. Modern technology - in particular cell phones
6. Cold cereal
7. Ice cream
8. The Book of Mormon - every time I read it, my testimony is strengthened
9. Air conditioning in Arizona
10. The Internet
11. Forgiveness
12. Cute shoes that are also comfortable
13. Mexican food
14. Music, especially the kind you can dance to
15. Learning life's lessons as a parent
16. Healthy children
17. Target
18. Answers to prayers
19. Promptings from the Spirit
20. Hugs from my hubby and kids
21. General Conference
22. Naptime
23. Missionaries
24. Contact lenses
25. My testimony

I could go on and on about the things I am grateful for, but I will save them for the Thankful Thursdays yet to come. I will end with a scripture that is a great reminder to us on each day of our lives no matter our circumstances.

"...That ye humble yourselves even to the dust, and worship God, in whatsoever place ye may be in, in spirit and in truth; and that ye live in thanksgiving daily, for the many mercies and blessings which He doth bestow upon you." (Alma 34:38)

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Props to Avery

Avery got some $ for her a birthday a few weeks ago, so I told her I would take her to Target to pick out a new toy. She was so excited to go to the store and wanted to hold the $ in the car. When we got there, she counted it and she had $6 all together. She knows exactly where the toys are at Target so she walked quickly over to the aisles with all the girl toys. To my surprise however, she said, "I want to buy something for Hayden." I told her that it was very nice of her to offer to buy something for her sister, but she might not have enough money to buy a toy for herself and for Hayden. She insisted though and told me, "Hayden wants a new dollie." The princess dolls were actually on sale for $6, so Hayden picked a new Ariel doll and Avery proudly and lovingly handed it to her.


That was definitely one of those tender, melt-your-mom's-heart moments. I was so proud of Avery that she made that decision with absolutely no prodding from me. I gave her a big hug and told her that I was so proud of her and that Jesus was proud of her too for doing something nice for her sister. I told her I would give her some extra money to pick something out for herself too. So after walking up and down the aisles, she finally settled on a teeball and bat set and both girls left Target with their new toys.

Monday, March 16, 2009

On 2 Legs Again

Well, this is quite late, but Hayden started taking steps on her own about a week and a half ago. I was eating lunch one day and she said, "Mommy, look at me." She was standing up in the kitchen without holding on to the table and she was so proud of herself. She slowly started letting go of things and taking more and more steps. She is still limping a little and not stable all the time, but she is doing so much better.She had just finished eating lunch and spilled on herself - hence the spots on her shirt.She has to put her hands down sometimes to get her balance back, but she gets back up pretty quickly.

Happy Hayden walking :)

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Avery is 5

Avery's birthday was last week (Mar. 3) and she is now 5 years old and growing every day! It seems like most of my posts lately have been all about Hayden, so this one is all about Avery. Here are some pictures of Avery on all of her birthdays.

Avery was born on March 3, 2004 in Mesa, AZ. She was 3 weeks early (much to our surprise) and weighed 7 lbs. 1 oz. (The picture below is not a birthday picture, but one of my favorite baby pictures of Avery so I thought I would put it on here too.)Avery's 1st birthday - and first ice cream cake. It was cold, but she dug in anyway :) She is an ice cream lover like her mom.Avery's 2nd birthday - this was the same day we blessed her baby sister Hayden. Avery's 3rd birthday - blowing out candles at Grandma's house.
Avery's 4th birthday - she had a princess party with all of her friends.And now Avery is 5!!
We had preschool at our house on Avery's birthday, so all the kids got to sing to her and have cake and ice cream. My mom came to help with Hayden & Kiley while I did preschool. (My mom's birthday is the day before Avery's and mine is 3 days after Avery's, so we all have birthdays in the same week.) Our theme for preschool was Day & Night so I put a star on the cake. Yes, that is a star cookie cutter - I didn't have anything else that was shaped like a star.After preschool, my mom took me and Avery out to lunch and shopping for our birthdays. It was really fun!
Avery got a new swimsuit w/ matching towel and flip-flops and a new outfit from Old Navy. She still wanted me to wrap them up even though she picked them out. The more presents to open the merrier, right?We got Avery the Disney Princess and Cars games for her Leapster. She loves both of them, and they keep her busy during quiet time (a.k.a. nap-time for the other girls and break time for mom :)Brandon also took Avery to the store to pick out a new Wii game. She picked a skiing game called We Ski, which she loves playing. She is our little Wii pro now. Avery also got a new dress that her Grandma Dorothy (Brandon's mom) made for her and a Littlest Pet Shop board game. Her aunts/uncles got her some Play-Doh, and a Dora fairy. Avery had a really fun birthday and she is so excited to be 5 now. I can't believe how fast the last five years have gone. Everyone tells you it will go by fast when you have babies, but I never realized it until all of a sudden I have a 5-year-old and two other kids. Am I really that old?? (I am 27 now by the way, but I still feel like I should be a teenager :)